If you want to talk dirty in the bedroom, start small by making your partner feel sexy and appreciated with a few compliments. It is commonly a part of foreplay, and can include vivid erotic descriptions, sexual humor, sexual commands and rude words. It may be whispered into a partner’s ear, spoken over a telephone, or put into text. The intention of erotic talk is generally to generate excitement between one, both or all parties engaged in a sexual interaction, or even to induce orgasm. First of all, as with all things related to sex, you have to submit to the fact that dirty talk is vaguely ridiculous. Sex is basically just rubbing two (or more) naked bodies together because it feels good, so naturally any narration of the act is a little silly.
Keep it simple and short
You don’t have to be an erotica novelist or fanfic author to crush the dirty talk game. Here’s some inspiration for dirty things to say to your partner to keep sexual energy flowing in your relationship. If you decide to test out a new conversation topic, take it slow.
- Then, in a quiet, sexy voice, say one of the dirty talk examples above with a small smile.
- A new bi-weekly newsletter by wine editor Daléne Fourie.
- “But then there’s also dirty talk that’s about communicating desires, and what your boundaries and fantasies are with a partner or partners.”
- The first place everyone thinks of when it comes to talking dirty to your boyfriend is the bedroom.
Dirty Talk: The Ultimate Guide For Beginners (116 Examples)
- “It’s easy to say ‘Hey, I was reading that some women don’t like to dirty talk during sex.
- Horn suggests starting with discovering your own personal sexual persona or personas.
- If you get a positive response, you can take things up a notch and extend the dirty talk to the bedroom.
- “It’s never a bad idea to incorporate more erotic language and communication into your sex life, especially now.”
It’s about asking for what you want and then telling them how great they are. Eventually, it will feel natural and get hotter and more intense. If you’ve ever wanted to ‘level up your sexual game,’ this is your chance. But that said, even though you’ve had this discussion, and even though you KNOW it’s safe to take the leap, your mind will still try to keep you back from stepping out into the unknown. Any statement about what you have enjoyed doing with them in the past, or that you are envisioning doing with them in the future, is a great way to ease into a more vocal sex session. You need to captivate her attention and replace whatever else is happening in her head with a stronger, sexier signal.
Girls who are online now
AMAZING LUSTFUL CUTIE baby_and_lina 🤤
ADDICTION TO SEX 👅
🍓 THE RIPEST FRUIT YOU’VE EVER TASTED🍍
🍓 This erotic princess is waiting for you and ready to fulfill any wish 😏
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
Don’t miss it 👉christie_angel💞
🔞She baby_kris_love needs your cock more than ever🔞
This cutie loves to play with her tight holes.
She baby_kris_love will take any pose to make your balls empty🍆♨️💦
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
🔥 STOP SCROLLING 🔥 lera_vip
🔥 Her wet pussy is waiting for your cock lera_vip 🔥
❤This perfect figure lera_vip is made to please you. Do you know her fetish?😈
😈Come on in 👉👉👉 lera_vip ❤
💋 She’s waiting for you lera_vip 💋
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
SWEET GIRL mary_angel
WITH GORGEOUS CURVES🍓
🎀She is a master of deep blowjob💦
😈Satisfy her unquenchable hunger as she longs to empty your cock and make you cum non-stop🍌👅
Don’t resist temptation, embrace it!
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
💖ONLY TODAY💖 sinful_rosa
Fiery beauty sinful_rosa🔥
Loves stretching her tight pussy with her fingers and sucking dick with juicy lips🥵🥵🥵
Show how her excited clitoris pulsates💦
Hurry up and text her, she’s always online for you!😘
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
sweete_girl 🔥𝐅𝐑𝐄𝐄 𝐎𝐍𝐋𝐘 𝐓𝐎𝐃𝐀𝐘🔥 sweete_girl
𝐇𝐄𝐑 TINY 𝐏𝐔𝐒𝐒𝐘 𝐒𝐎 𝐖𝐄𝐓 𝐑𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 𝐍𝐎𝐖💦
𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐒𝐄𝐄 𝐈𝐓?🥵
@victoria 𝐈𝐒 𝐖𝐀𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐅𝐎𝐑 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓 𝐓𝐎 𝐏𝐋𝐀𝐘😈
⬇️𝐒𝐔𝐁𝐒𝐂𝐑𝐈𝐁𝐄⬇️
They’re taboo enough that you wouldn’t say them around your boss, but they’re also not disrespectful or clinical, which is exactly the tone you should be going for. There are few lines in music that bring me as much joy as, “Pussy so good I bought her a pet,” from the brilliant lyrical mind of Jason Derulo. No woman wants to be thinking about pet care while having sex.
“One of the most important basics is understanding what words you like to describe all the parts of your body, as well as your partner’s,” says Horn. Anatomy is particularly personal, whether your preference is pussy, vulva, penis, cock, dick, or perhaps more euphemistic like “down there” or “inside me.” All varieties can find their voice through dirty talk, whether you tend toward the kinky and X-rated or more vanilla and tender. Figuring out what kind of dirty talk works for you is also a unique and personal journey.
“During foreplay, you want to be more romantic,” advises Hellyer. “If you go straight in with ‘Ah, you’re such a hot bitch, I want to bang you right here and now,’ she’ll go, ‘Eww. Inappropriate.’ Keep it mild at first—make her feel desirable.” Dirty talk is all about getting the other person to feel aroused, excited, and wanted and to say, “Yes, I want it more.” The biggest point of contention in the survey was nicknames, particularly of the derogatory variety (e.g. “whore”, “daddy”). These were the number one turn-off for some respondents, yet they were the number three turn-on for others. When it comes to the pet names, the message seems to be to proceed cautiously, starting off lighter (“sweetheart”, “baby”).
“You are learning a new skill and that takes time and practice! Talking dirty is a great way to connect with your lover and to kick things up a notch in the bedroom. To master dirty talk, you just have to slowly get more comfortable opening up verbally in bed (or if you’re sexting, over the phone).
Recent Comments